How to convince my parents to get me a cat?

March 13th, 2010
  • i really want a pet of my own. we have a family dog who is three and quite spoiled. my dad doesnt really like cats but i have always wanted one and i think i am old enouth to care for a pet. i am prepared to pay for all its needs and it would totaly be my responsibility.
    i am 16 years old and very mature for my age. i think my dog would really like another pet around the house but my mum thinks our dog wouldn't like it. how do i convince my parents that i am ready to look after a pet and that my dog is lonley and wants another pet to play with? i have already asked my mum a number of times an she always says no how can i get around this little problem?


  • Show them that you're responsible. And try to also let them know that you know what you're talking about, that it isn't just on a whim.

    God bless


  • They are not entertaining your arguments, so give up. You can have a cat when you move out in a couple of years. Cats are very different from dogs, ya know.

    Your dog wouldn't be kept company by a cat in the house. Esp if he's been King of the Hill for 3 yrs. It'll piss him off having another animal in there. If he is truly lonely you need to adopt another dog. Dogs are pack animals and benefit from being among their own.

    Cats are great companions but at 16 you're not prepared to pay for all its needs. It has vet bills, must be spayed or neutered, etc, and can cost hundreds a year. Volunteer at a cat rescue on weekends to get the kitty fix you need now, then when you get your own place pick out your perfect puss. Good luck


  • Sounds a bit like my parents.

    Like you said, you're prepared to pay for it's needs but keep in mind that this is your parents house not yours and they don't want to have to take care of it while you work or go away for a weekend. You will have to toilet train it, feed it, take care of it.

    Having a pet is costy even for someone who think they can afford it. Some medical bills can range from $80 and above, even exceeding $500. You will have to desex and tagged them (as in have a microchip installed so if found they can scan and return to you).

    Perhaps one pet is all that your family can afford and they think having one pet is enough.
    Your dog cannot be lonely as it is surrounded by people and loved for. If you think it needs some attention, find some toys and items that will occupied the dog time.

    Having a new pet move in when you already have a dog can be uncomfortable for your dog and they might not get along, they might fight and get rough around the house, it is more then likely that they won't get along at all.

    I'm sorry but I don't think you really have a chance to convince your parents and I agree with their reasons that you provided above. Wait till you have move out.


  • Sooner than you can imagine you will be out on your own. When that time comes, then you can have your cat.

    If everyone if your home isn't in agreement about getting a cat, it really is not a great idea.

    good luck!


  • what kind of dog is it? some dogs really don't like cats but some love them.. keeping a cat can get pricey.. do you have a job or something? if you where making your own money then that would help..
    when i wanted my cat, i just begged & begged for about 2 weeks straight, i don't know if that will work with your p's but it did with mine. & if it doesn't work just think in a couple years you can move out and get as many animals as you want.

    good luck & i hope you can get one.


  • Tell your parents that you love very much cats and that you want a cat as christmas present.Ask them to bring you anything else and that you like very much to pet it and why if they have a dog bot to have a cat which needs less care and the dog will have someone to play with


  • I think as your dog is spoiled and has all the attention now , he wouldn't be very happy about having to share you.He might not like to play with a cat and a cat might not like him.But if you can persuade your parents, despite all this, it can be done. You'd need lots of time and patience, you'd have to keep the 2 pets seperate and introduce them to each other very slowly,make sure they were fed seperately and slept in seperate rooms.So you really would need your parents on your side as you won't always be at home to see to them. Both pets would need equal attention and love too.
    Good luck, I know how you feel as I had to wait many years for a much wanted cat, but the wait was worth it and as someone else said, it won't be that long at your age, until you have your own home and can please yourself.







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